If your son told you tomorrow that he’s thinking of leaving Scouting, what would you say?
For “Dave,” a concerned parent from an East Coast troop, that’s no hypothetical question.
The parent, whose name I changed to conceal his identity, writes:
My son is 15 and has been in Scouting since he was a Tiger Cub Scout, and over the past year, has been increasingly vocal about wanting to quit. He’s not “passionate” about the majority of Scouting activities and is finding our large troop with many younger scouts (some with emotional issues) “a waste of time.”
I am an active committee member and have been strongly encouraging him to stick with it, but it’s getting to the point where I don’t know what to say or do to keep him in.
We’ve explained the benefits of attaining Eagle Scout and that if he drops out, we won’t continue spending money on his non-Scouting interests (sports camps, going to watch pro games, music concerts, etc). I don’t like this approach but feel strongly about him getting to Eagle.
I think we have a very good Scoutmaster and assistant Scoutmasters and a diverse variety of activities.
He’s a tremendous boy who does well in school, plays sports and music, and has many friends. Any advice to help me keep him in Scouting?
Based on Dave’s e-mail, it looks like there’s still time to keep his son in the program. But how?
What would you do?
How would you respond if your son said he’d like to quit? What should Dave tell his son to convince him to stay? Have you successfully “saved” a Scout who considered dropping out? Offer your advice by leaving a comment below.
Dave will be reading your comments — as will others in a similar predicament.
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